Is it a must to have money before you can woo a lady?
Good day ma, first of all, I will love to say well done on your job. Please ma, is it a must that you must have money before you can woo a lady? Also ladies don’t love me for whom I am. Help.
•My brother, it may surprise you that you’re not alone in the wilderness of loneliness all because you haven’t made money. Many Nigerian girls are beginning to size men up by the weight of their pockets as against the sincerity of their hearts. No wonder Sir Shina Peters in one of his songs, said, “Baby wan ride beautiful car, even sef, baby wan stay inside beautiful duplex, all these things, na ego go cost.”
As a hardworking woman though, I don’t support women who look out for rich men before they can start a relationship. It is sad that most of these girls waste their time looking for money bags and they have a total disdain for the young men who are wooing them left, right and center. Then when they have missed the boat, they start running to pastors and alfas and babalawos for solution to their husbandless status after some years.
If you like a girl and she makes you feel that you’re less than a man because you don’t have money, just let her go. There are still many good girls out there who will accept you for whom you are.
Work hard at whatever you’re doing now and pray for God’s blessings. Maybe by the time some of these girls doing yanga today have lost their time, you may be in a position to hire their brothers and sisters for them to have food on their table. Bet it, the beauty they are parading today won’t be so tight in a few years to come. When that time comes, you won’t even want to touch them. Go on, work!
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